On May 4, 2015, members of the staff at UCP National were invited to the New York City screening of the film “Margarita, With A Straw” at the Paris Theatre as part of the New York Indian Film Festival. The film centers around a young woman named Lila, a college student with Cerebral Palsy who is studying music. The film explores her desire to be loved and accepted for who she really is, while trying to navigate the world in her power chair. In the beginning of the movie, you see Lila in the mists of trying to win the affection of her band’s lead singer, Nima. After Nima rejects her advances, Lila learns that she has been admitted into New York University.
Lila suddenly goes from her small college in New Delhi to the big streets of NYC. On her first week in the city, Lila happens upon a protest. During the protest, police begin to tear gas the crowd; this is where Lila meets Khanum. Lila and Khanum quickly begin a whirl-wind romance and are soon living together. Lila begins to come to grips with her sexuality, knowing that she will soon have to come out to her closest family member and her caretaker: her mother. Through a series of revelations, Lila’s family and relationship are turned upside down. Lila soon learns that she doesn’t need to seek validation from others, but in herself.
After the movie, the film’s director, Shonali Bose, and its stars Kalki Koechlin (Lila) and Sayani Gupta (Khanum) talked about how they got into character and prepared for their roles. UCP had the opportunity to meet both Koechlin and Bose, take photos and discuss their thoughts and feelings on the film. For some of the staff at UCP National, three of which were born with Cerebral Palsy, this film was the first time they had really seen a portrayal that echoed parts of their own experiences on screen.
What sets “Margarita, With A Straw” apart from other films about Cerebral Palsy or disability, is the way you see Lila: She is not an underdog or a source of inspiration. She is just living her life, while trying to find her place in the world. As a viewer with or without a disability, you can identify with parts of Lila’s journey. This film gives viewers a look into the struggles that some face with a disability, because in the end, we all want to be loved and accepted for who we are.